Powerful love spells. White magic love spells. Candle love spells. How to make someone fall in love has stumped the human soul for ages, and the ways that mankind has sought to ensnare their hearts desire is as ancient and endless as love itself.
Assume for the moment that there exists some magical love spell, some real and potent formulary that could actually make someone instantaneously fall in love.
Except for one very important psychological axiom: A lot of time the thing that is the most wanted, is wanted primarily because it can't be had.
Desire is a motivator so strong that it tends to cripple every logical resource and inclination.. Wanting what is just beyond reach is known as "The Psychology of Limited Resources." and the instinct is so strong that it's widely used in sales to coerce people into buying something that was not even wanted in the first place.
How to Make Someone Fall in Love
Psychologically, the most effective aphrodisiac of all is simply being unavailable. Certainly this is no guarantee of love, but it's the appropriate start in the right direction. If in doubt, reflect upon how many times people have been known to remark that the instant they lost interest in someone, the more desirable they became.
The Secret to the Definitive Love Spell
Th most powerful love spell in the world, therefore, is one that is one that is directed, not externally, but internally. Part of what lies behind the incessant desire to be loved by someone that clearly does not love back is based in transference, a psychological term that denotes transferring ones feelings onto someone else.
Falling in love with someone that is unavailable and winning them over as opposed to doing the internal work that needs done in order to gain self-respect and increased self-efficacy, essentially is the road of greater ease. There are no shortcuts on the paths of existence, not a one.
A Candle Love Spell
To perform a candle love spell, magic practitioners will need:
- Green Candle
- Copper Flake and/or glitter
- An Apple and/or a Pomegranate
- Attar of Rose or Jasmine Absolute
- A White Silk Cloth
Choosing an appropriate hour and day (think Venus), assemble all of the necessary items at the altar. Prepare for this sacred ritual ahead of time by bathing in a warm bath infused with equal parts of milk and honey. Select music to play in the background that evokes feelings of bliss (better still to record a CD or create a playlist especially made for this purpose).
While bathing, imagine all feelings of inadequacy and unworthiness slipping away safely to be dissolved in the magical waters. Meditate on the wonderful creation that it is to be alive. Reflect on your hearts truest purpose.
Rise with desire - desire to be, to know, to do and to learn. Approach the altar and anoint the candle with one of the chosen oils. Dab equal drops of this oil on pulse points and temples, in full awareness of what it is to be the embodiment of the Goddess. Light the candle and repeat the following charm three times: "O Love Divine / from I to thee; / awaken my heart / into love for me."
Repeat this ritual as many times as is needed to berid of any external associations of love, until there is a deep sense of being filled with a love that no mortal could possibly be a substitute for.
Lisbeth Cheever-Gessaman - Lisbeth Cheever-Gessaman is a writer, spiritual activist and free spirit who divides her time between Europe and America cultivating a ...
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